Skip to main content

Illusion of being left behind

Aka generation gap.  I refer to the natural evolution of the species and why some feel that they ought to be clued in to the latest and greatest.  In fact the use of the words 'latest and greatest' speaks to the fallacy.  What is latest is mostly not the greatest.  Sometimes it is just short lived.  It is foolish. 

Most people attach and associate with ideas that become self fulfilling prophecies and show high adoption and acceptance.  Just because a billion people are doing something does not make it a must have or 'you are doomed if you do not' situation.

Most people though don't like to overthink instead relying on their peers to make decisions and follow.  It is also helpful to be accepted in social circles.  Commenting on pithy remarks on websites and liking others for every fart has started becoming the currency to trade favors.

There is also the culture of wanting to be 'in the know' and be 'out there'.  Estelle Costanza (for those that remember), an aging 'separatee' from Queens, NY also wanted to be out there.  I am not sure what is out there.

Sometimes being right here is the place to be.

Being resident in the valley it is almost blasphemous to not have subscribed to the smartest phones, watches and apps and to top it have complete ignorance of what, how and where of the jillions of mergers and appointments and websites.  Not making purchases online is another ghastly concept that the valley types cannot compute and yet for someone like me it is perfectly normal to not get excited about.  I am also cheap in that I find great joy to peruse the book sale at the library and buy used paperbacks for less than a dollar to read and not have to Kindle the Amazonian revenues.

People a generation ago did not fly as much as we do and yet they found something to be content with right in their own railway stations.  That many of those stations have become cesspools since then is a different story but you did not have to try hard to be somewhere you did not have to.

The internet has certainly opened the horizons for large swaths of society and brought lot of good.   It has democratized access to information for most of the world, which to me is the best achievement in the last 100 years.  But especially in Silicon Valley there is a sense of entitlement amongst large chunks of public that forces everyone to get on board the startup train, be entrepreneurial, sign up for exotic gym memberships, eat organic, wear yoga pants, drive a German sedan or leave town.

I am content to not board a train I know nothing or something about and be left behind.   Guess what - if everyone boards and leaves I will have the station all to myself.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

But What If We're Wrong?

I attempted to read this book by author Chuck Klosterman backward to forward but it started hurting my brain so I decided to stop and do it like any other publication in the English language.  Start from page 1 and move to the right. Witty, caustic and thought provoking this is a book you want to read if you believe that the status quo might, just might be wrong. At times bordering on being contrarian about most things around us it tries to zero in on the notion of what makes anything believable and certain in our minds.  The fact that there is a fact itself is ironic.  Something analogous to the idea that you can never predict the future because there is no future. Many books and movies have tried to play on this concept - best that I recollect (I think I am) was 'The Truman Show'.  This book by Klosterman attempts to provoke the reader to at least contemplate that what they think they know may be wrong. He uses examples like concept of gravity, and how it ...

You are important to us

Followed by piano music.   Followed by 'we are experiencing heavier than usual call volume'.  Sounds macabre like bleeding during menstruation or after a ghastly attack with a weapon on a hemophiliac.  Sorry Mrs. Johnson but it appears little Gertrude here has been bleeding heavier than usual what with her night time activities competing with the woodchucks in your neighborhood. Some services even go as far as to pick a random day to say - 'if you were to call us during the Chinese lunar month when the moon is axiomatically hugging the polar star with Jupiter intravenous when call volume is light'.  Well I will be damned.  I thought  I had checked with my astrologer before I placed this well focused call but  I guess this is what you get for listening to a quack. Umph! I am not sure which marketing genius came up with this personal touch concept of informing the caller that you are really a jackass for actually calling the customer serv...

Of Jims and Johns

Here is another essay on the subject of first names. As in birth names. Or names provided to an offspring at birth. While the developed world tends to shy away from the exotic like Refrigerator or Coca Cola for their new production there is a plethora of Jims and Johns and Bobs or Robs. Speaking of which I do not think there is a categoric decision point at the time of birth if a child will be hereafter called as Bob. I mean have not yet met a toddler called Bob or Rob for that matter. At some point though the parental instinct to mouth out multiple syllables runs out and they switch from calling the crawler Robert to simply Robbie to Rob. Now speaking of - it is strange that the name sounds like something you would not want Rob to do - i.e. Rob anyone. Then why call someone that? After all Rob Peter to Pay Paul is not exactly a maxim to live a young life? Is it? Perhaps Peter or Paul might want to have a say in it? Then there is this matter of going to the John. Why degrad...