This 'independence day' (India officially became a republic today in 1947) morning the wife and I got talking about some interesting stuff over caffiene. That of what to do with our lives. This led us astray (perhaps) into reviewing what the ancients knew on this subject.
Turns out Manu (some dude like Noah except am not sure when he was around) had some thoughts on this matter. This was of course before the Higgs was discovered. He wisely recommended a man divide his life in 4 increments of 25 years (give or take) each and perform tasks or duties relevant to that period.
First was the learning phase or Brahmacharya - 0 to 25 - be a student and amass knowledge and understand how the world works phase.
Second was the Gruhasthashram - 25 to 50 - procreate (that some took to heart), develop and support a household - be there - and then ensuring the long term well being of your brood start packing for the
Third stage - Vanaprastha - or hermit or retirement - wander the forest to seek the meaning of what the heck you just did for the past 50 - this one is quite funny yet poignant - Manu realized that most people would be losers and would feel good if they at least got a quiet time to reflect on their 50 years of mistakes. e.g. I should have stopped after that first child; did I have one too many of those potent syrups? oh well ..
Today of course the third stage is considered a lucrative market by Wall Street as they claim to protect your loved ones from your sudden departures or the lack of the social safety net (Social Insecurity or 'minus' 401k -- in debt --type issues) not working out for your loved ones (ideally there should only be a loved one but some make mistakes during the second stage as previously highlighted).
Fourthly and finally if by a stroke of good genetic disposition and not having cultivated too many enemies you cross the 75 year mark comes the
Fourth lap - or wandering asectic - giving up everything material and checking out completely - no points no rewards - thats it folks.
I tell you if people only wake up and read what is already published and forget about facebook et al we will all become happier.
This autumn the weather gods cooperated as we took a family trip in the northeast to see six states that qualify or makeup what is known colloquially in America as New England. Mass, Maine, Vermont, New Hampshire, Connecticut and Rhode Island (tiniest state in the union). The outing helped tally up the states we either lived in, visited or have worked in to 47. Guess which three have eluded this intrepid traveling family. Any rate the drive was all in about 1,800 miles and included some memorable geographic wonders or points of interest. Easternmost part of state of Massachusetts being one. Furthest drivable road east in Mass being another. Visit to all Ivy League schools (term harkens to a collegiate athletics conference and generally regarded as elite academic institutes of some repute worldwide) is another random bucket list item of which this trip afforded the chance to knock two more of the list. Dartmouth in Hanover, NH and Brown (and its sister institute the RISD - school f
I am now at the beginning of the Wan..prastha.
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